Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Umbrella Helps Bring Light at the End of the Tunnel

“I don’t think I’d be where I am today if it wasn’t for all of the kind people at Umbrella.” – Judy T.

Only a few years into her marriage, Judy found herself being abused both physically and mentally by her husband. Worst of all, her four year old son regularly witnessed the attacks. Fearing for their well-being, Judy began to look for help.

Judy spoke with close friends and began to privately investigate the Umbrella agency. The Umbrella counselors scheduled a confidential meeting to review her case, but Judy was concerned about her financial situation. Money was already tight and she didn’t know what type of help she could obtain on a constricted budget.

Judy was able to receive continued counseling for herself and her son free of charge at Umbrella. Services offered in the Umbrella Program are provided at no cost to the individual. Judy’s legal fees were differed and a legal counsel was also appointed to properly represent her in court. Despite taking about three years in the court system, she was able to stop the abuse, remove her husband from the home and regain control of her life.

“I was able to feel better about myself because the counselors at Umbrella helped me understand this was not my fault and that there will always be options,” Judy said. “I don’t think I’d be where I am today if it wasn’t for all of the kind people at Umbrella.”

Many victims of domestic violence need a place to go that can be considered a safe haven after removing themselves from a dangerous and potentially escalating situation. Umbrella provided that place of refuge for not only Judy, but her son as well. Judy’s son is now in his early 20’s and just received his bachelor’s degree in Finance earlier this year.

“Umbrella supplied food, provided shelter, clothing, and during the holidays even hosted Christmas parties and gift exchange programs,” Judy said. “I hope my story can help any women who may be victims of domestic violence and show that there really is a light at the end of the tunnel.”

The basic premise of the Umbrella Program is that all persons have the right to live free of violence and fear, especially within their own homes. Umbrella works towards the elimination of domestic violence and provides practical assistance and support to victims. The Umbrella Program operates on the principle that all persons who utilize their services are in charge of their own lives and have the right to make their own decisions.

Umbrella is located at 435 East Main Street Ansonia, CT 06401. The office can be contacted directly by calling (203) 736-2601 while the 24-hour crisis hotline can be reached at (203) 736-9944. Umbrella can also be visited online at http://www.bghealth.org/umbrella_domestic_violence_services.htm.

Judy's full video can be seen here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-cDvmFSg9E

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